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Giving Our Children A Brighter Future. From Genes To Geniuses!

Raising kids is hard. But if we know our child's natural talents and traits, things might get a lot clearer, and easier.

Cedric Lee

Founder and CEO, ConnectingDNA · · 5 min read

Editor's note. This issue first ran in November 2023 and keeps the voice it was written in. We are more careful today about what a DNA test can tell you, and What your DNA can and cannot tell you sets out where we stand.

I get it.

As a father of 2 kids, I understand keenly that the role of a parent can be challenging.

Raising children to be exceptional in this modern world can be even tougher, especially when the education and employment landscape these days is so competitive.

A father at a desk holding his head while two small children make chaos around him
Parenting can be a tough, but also rewarding journey. This is how I sometimes feel with my 2 boys at home. Image generated by Midjourney AI and edited in Photoshop.

Nonetheless, as parents, we all strive to provide the best for our children. We invest our time, effort, and love into nurturing their growth, with the hopes of their success later in life.

But what if there were a way to gain deeper insights into our child’s personality, something that could serve as a guiding light on our parenting journey? A smarter approach to grooming them for a prosperous future?

Believe it or not, this possibility exists.

Here is why.

Is Talent Genetic?

30 to 60% of our personality when we grow up is based on genetic influences.

Our genetic makeup plays a crucial role in shaping who we are. It influences our physical characteristics, personality traits, and even our susceptibilities to certain health conditions.

Whether our kids behave like considerate “angels”, or mischievous “devils”, I believe each of them is born with innate quirks and talents, and unlocking these insights early can help us personalise our interaction with them, leading to better relationships and positive educational outcomes.

A young girl standing in front of a wall where her shadow is a dancer, over the line that success is personality and talents with the right choices
Every child can have different personalities and talents. Understanding them can help us make smarter parenting decisions. Extracted from my corporate presentation deck titled "Impact of Genetics".

That is why many companies like 23andMe, CircleDNA, and ConnectingDNA offer simple home-based DNA test kits to help consumers unlock these insights. Some brands, like OriKIDS, are even customised for the parent to understand their child’s genetic profile.

Through a child-based DNA test, parents can then apply these.

3 Parenting Benefits Of Genetics

#1 Tailored Education, Nurturing Talents

Some children may have a genetic predisposition for certain cognitive abilities, talents or learning styles.

By identifying these traits early on, parents can tailor their educational approach to better suit their child’s unique needs.

A boy writing at a desk beside a report page assessing his mental reaction time as high potential
A child that excels because he is more talented at it will be happier and more confident in life. Image generated by Midjourney AI and edited in Photoshop.

Furthermore, it allows parents to make the right decision to nurture their child’s passions and interests from an early age, potentially leading to a fulfilling career as they grow up.

#2 Improve Relationships, Fostering Resilience

Genetic profiling can reveal a child’s personality predispositions, such as extroversion or introversion. This knowledge enables parents to shape environments that nurture their child’s emotional and social growth.

Armed with this insight, parents can develop strategies to assist their child in dealing with challenges and setbacks more effectively.

A family laughing together at a table beside a report page assessing sociability
Every child deals with communication, learning and stress differently. Understanding their peculiarities can help parents build stronger bonds. Image generated by Midjourney AI and edited in Photoshop.

In fact, it has also been scientifically proven that as caregivers ourselves, understanding our own genetic dispositions (for example, how we react to stressful situations, like naughty kids) can have tremendous impact in our parenting effectiveness as well.

#3 Personalised Nutrition, Preventive Health

Genetic testing can reveal susceptibility to specific health conditions, along with specific nutritional requirements and allergies unique to each child.

A small child at a table of food beside a report page saying their need for protein is slightly higher
Each child needs different macronutrients to grow up tall and healthy. Understanding their unique needs helps parents improve their health and prevent allergies. Image generated by Midjourney AI and edited in Photoshop.

Some allergies do not manifest when a child is young, and only occur once they are older.

In fact, as Dr Kathryn Ruda Wessell, a paediatric allergist from UH Rainbow Babies and Children’s Hospital in Ohio, USA, suggests, allergies can indeed take time to manifest in children.

That is why, armed with knowledge of genetic risks, parents can take preventive measures and promote a healthier lifestyle for their child, potentially avoiding future health issues.

Reasonable Considerations

Is a DNA test accurate? Will my child’s genetic information be private and safe?

While genetic profiling holds enormous promise, as a parent, I understand that it also raises concerns on accuracy and ethics.

In terms of accuracy, consumer DNA testing has witnessed remarkable growth over the past few decades, and most genetic information is accurate, unless incidents occur.

Rows of server racks lit blue down a long data-centre aisle
Most genetic information from consumers can be stored in large data centers like these that prevent hacking and leaks. Image source from Oxgene.

When it comes to ethics, parents may understandably worry about privacy issues. However, it is worth noting that most DNA companies encrypt their customers’ data and are prohibited from disclosing it externally (to insurance, healthcare or pharmaceutical companies, for example).

Nonetheless, as guardians of their child’s genetic information, parents should handle this data responsibly, always keeping their children’s best interests in mind.

It is important to remember that genetics is just one piece of the puzzle, and environmental factors and personal choices also play a significant role in a child’s development.

In Conclusion

A child’s future is determined by Nature and Nurture. Understanding their nature will make nurturing them more effective.

Understanding our child’s genetic traits can be a valuable tool in our parenting arsenal, helping create a customised roadmap for their future success.

By using this information responsibly and in conjunction with other parenting strategies, we can empower our child to reach their full potential and shine brightly in their unique way.

So let us be smart, informed parents, and unlock our child’s genius through their genes!

A father and child walking a railway line at sunset, under the question what do you wish for your child
Extracted from my corporate presentation deck titled "Impact of Genetics".

Sources

  1. Genetic predispositions and parental bonding interact to shape adults’ physiological responses to social distress (2016)
  2. How your child’s allergies can change with age (University Hospitals, 2018)

What a child is built for is the same question the DNA-Archetypes ask of an adult, and the Bio-Profile is where the traits themselves are read.

Cedric Lee

Cedric Lee

Founder and CEO, ConnectingDNA

Cedric has spent over twenty years in healthcare, wellness and technology, and has taken his own DNA test with more consumer labs than he cares to admit. He writes the Living with Genes newsletter and founded ConnectingDNA to turn genetic reports into something a person can act on.

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First published on Living with Genes, Issue 5. Rewritten and brought up to date for this site.

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